“My husband has pornography addicition. How can I help him?” – Melissa, GA
Remember that you did not cause this, you can’t control his actions, and you can’t cure this, only God can. You start with prayer and follow with a day-to-day commitment to love your spouse the way God loves you. You will be having all sorts of feelings that may come up: hurts anger, rejection and betrayal. Don’t try to make it through this on your own. You’ve been deeply hurt and need other women to express your pain to; women who can provide support and comfort, and pray with you. Once your husband starts down the road to recovery, don’t expect him to become completely free from all sexual sin overnight, especially if he’s spent years saturating his mind with lust. I’m convinced that a man’s wife is his greatest asset in the battle against lust.