“My wife wants a divorce but I don’t. What can I do?” – Tracy, OK

You must know that you can’t manipulate or make someone love you or change their minds about divorce.  However, your actions can greatly contribute to them wanting to change their minds and wanting to save the marriage.  First, check to see if your behaviors or attitudes are pushing your spouse away.  If your negative emotions are all being released on your spouse it can serve to push them away.  Try to get them out another way.  Secondly, go back to the way you acted when you were dating.  You probably won’t feel like it but fake it till you make it.  This is not kissing up.  It’s biblical.  Ephesians 5:33, “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. Lastly, persist and don’t give up.”


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