CLASS OPTION- THE DNA OF RELATIONSHIP, FOR THOSE WANTING ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP & WANT TO KNOW WHAT HEALTHY LOOKS LIKE (AND SOME LOOKING BACK)

Journey of the Marital Promised Land: Thinking about signing up?…
Personal Journey Just DO IT if you are ready for new relationship…
Spouses Journey Rick and De Etta Lerch
Marriage Journey 610-326-6726 Stowe PA.
However, all couples get stuck in a destructive “dance” or cycle from time to time. Learning to recognize the cycle is a powerful first step towards maintaining a great relationship over time, and the cycle always follows a similar pattern. When our mate pushes our buttons we tend to react. How we react usually pushes our mate’s button and then he/she reacts. The way he/she reacts pushes another button, and we typically go around and around until we either escalate or withdraw. We will teach couples how to identify their cycle and their “buttons,” how to easily create the ideal environment to foster great relationships, and then four foundational skills that break the cycle.
The Journey to the Promised Land: Skill #1: Personal Responsibility. One thing that makes the cycle so destructive is that spouses typically try to break the cycle and fix the problem by getting the other person to change. Instead of taking personal responsibility for their own buttons and reactions, couples inadvertently fuel the cycle by focusing on the other person. We will teach couples how to accept the job of being 100% responsible for fully expressing the person God created them to be. As a result we help them discover all the power, freedom, and peace the Lord wants them to have personally and relationally.
Skill #2. Caring for Self. Jesus said the greatest commandment is to love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, and to love others as we love ourselves. Once a person accepts 100% responsibility for being the man/woman that God intended, they then need simple and practical ways of doing the job of effectively caring for him/herself. We will teach couples the key to living out the greatest commandment by caring for their own emotional, spiritual, physical, and mental well-being, and thus become fully equipped to love and care for others.
Skill #3: Caring for Your Mate. Although our mate is 100% responsible for fully being whom God created them to be, we can learn how to assist our mate by loving, honoring, encouraging, and helping. We will teach couples how to become great assistants by learning several key ways to love and assist their mate to be all they were created to be without taking responsibility for their spouse’s life and journey.
Skill #4: Caring for Your Marriage. Finally, after we’ve learned to care for ourselves and to assist our mate, we can now effectively focus on the marriage. The marriage adventure is ideally the adventure of a lifetime. For it to thrive, couples need to see the value and purpose of the journey, and learn how to make it a thrilling ride. We teach couples how to fully embrace and engage the adventure, and how to create romance and passion to last a lifetime. We also teach the simplest technique we know to easily overcome conflict by first recognizing that they are teammates, and then adopting a “no loser’s policy” that states the only acceptable solution to a marital conflict is one where both people feel like they’ve won—a win/win.
The DNA of RELATIONSHIP

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